This moment!.. Here and now!.. You forget about it when you start thinking in terms of achievement. When you develop the mind of an achiever, you lose contact with the paradise you are in now. Here is one of the most liberating approaches that will set you free right now: forget everything about the sin and forget everything about holiness – both of them are silly.
These two concepts destroyed all the joys of mankind. The sinner feels guilty, which means that his joy is lost. How can you enjoy life if you constantly feel guilty, if you constantly go to church to repent of your sins? Sins, sins and more sins... Your entire life seems to be made up of sins. How can you live happily? You cannot enjoy life. You become heavy and burdened. Guilt lays down on your chest like a heavy stone, it crashes you, itdoes not let you dance. How can you dance? How can a guilty person dance? How can a guilty person sing? How can a guilty person love? How can a guilty person live? That is why,a person who feels that he is doing something wrong and is burdened with guilt is dead before his actual death. He has already in his grave.
Guilt is one of the most destructive feelings that can possess a person.If we have done harm to anyone or went against our principles and beliefs,then, of course, we feel bad. But to allow yourself to be overcome by guilt means to have a constant headache. As a result, you will be surrounded by clouds of feelings of self-doubt and worthlessness, and you will not be able to see the beauty and joy that life can offer you.
We all want to become better versions of ourselves –be more loving, more aware, more honest with ourselves. But when you continuously punish yourself for your shortcomings with guilt, you will find yourself in a vicious circle of despair and hopelessness will not allow you to clearly see yourself and the situation. You are absolutely normal as you are, and it is completely natural to make mistakes from time to time. Simply learn from them, move on and draw the moral, so as not to repeat the same mistake again.