Q♦ - Queen of Diamonds
the card of the philanthropist
The Queen of Diamonds is very indecisive in her value system (influenced by the Karmic Card - 3♦). This means that people born under the influence of Q♦ will often have difficulties in making choices. Diamond Queens love variety and are very talented and inventive, as long as their thoughts are not consumed by worries about money (which happens to them quite often). They have good taste. If Q♦ has money, she loves to spend it on first-class and expensive things, so she often lives beyond her means, which exacerbates her financial concerns. But despite this, the Queen of Diamonds is one of the most generous cards in the deck. 9♥ as the card of Jupiter and 9♦ as the second Karmic Card endow the Queen of Diamonds with an innate ability and a natural passion to share her wealth with other people. At a certain level, the symbol of the Diamond Queen is the rich aunt or grandmother (grandfather) who takes you shopping for new clothes or buys you an expensive birthday gift.
Q♦ are charming people. They know how to enjoy beautiful things, are constantly looking for new adventures, and sometimes strive to frequently change partners. Diamond Queens are endowed with a good innate business sense and talent in the field of advertising. They can succeed in many areas and have leadership qualities. Whatever Q♦ does, she always remains a Queen, which means she is inclined to nurture and educate others in work and in life.
Q♦ are naturally endowed with a critical mind, which gives them the ability to carefully analyze and plan situations, as well as see through any lie and deception. However, these same qualities of the mind can manifest negatively if things do not go as planned. All Diamond Queens are sometimes prone to pessimism, although they may not always be aware of it themselves. In contrast to this, they need to develop confidence in the future.
If Q♦ follows the spiritual path in her life, she can fulfill her mission and achieve the heights of spiritual realization and self-knowledge (this is symbolized by Q♠ as the Neptune Card). In addition, Q♦ are endowed with a special gift of comprehending ancient teachings. The natural attraction to ancient mysteries and occult sciences contributes to the knowledge of eternal truths, which will help the Diamond Queens alleviate many earthly problems. If the Diamond Queen is oriented towards the highest goal, then for her there are no barriers in spiritual ascent.
As mentioned earlier, the love karma of Q♦ causes very great difficulties in their partnerships. These difficulties are also predetermined by the problematic combination of stubbornness and pride, love of variety, fear of being alone, and the strength sufficient to achieve the desired at the right time. These people are characterized by entering into marriage three (or more) times, and even when it seems that they have already settled down happily, this is usually only temporary well-being. Diamond Queens are quite charming and have a certain charisma, which gives them the opportunity to easily establish new relationships. The difficulty here lies in maintaining relationships after they have arisen. Usually the desires of Q♦ are fulfilled (although this does not always bring them happiness), and they have to live, taking into account the consequences of these desires.
Q♦-men dream of Spades women. Q♦-women are usually passionately attracted to Club men, experiencing various acute situations in the process. They often have major difficulties with most Hearts men. Club women can both strongly attract and irritate Diamond Queens-men.
The card number often has much more meaning than we assume. For example, many people whose Birth Card is 8♥ have eight children, or there are eight people in their close circle who love them. The Venus Card for Q♦ is 3♣. Perhaps this is why many Q♦ have three marriages (or even more). Of course, there are Q♦ who have only one marriage in their life, or those who have never been married. However, the Q♦ who marry three times is a rather curious general pattern for this Birth Card.
Among the Life Path cards of Q♦ there are three extremely important Threes. The first of them is 3♦, the first Karmic Card of the Diamond Queen. This is the main symbol of the Diamond Queen's uncertainty about what is most important in her life. The second of the Threes is 3♣, the Venus Card, and the third is 3♠, the Mars Card. Venus and Mars are often called "personal planets", so the cards representing them reflect our behavior in personal relationships - in marriage, love and sex the most. If a Three or a Five is found in connection with Venus or Mars, one can expect variety and frequent changes in a person's love life. Having as many as two Threes as the Venus and Mars cards, Q♦ surpasses most other cards of the deck in the ability to establish new love relationships. However, it is not easy to maintain these relationships. The energy of the three Threes can cause boredom and anxiety in Q♦ if no outlet is provided. The Three is a combination of the Two (in this case, the connection between two people) with the One (the desire for something new). Many Q♦ do not want to stop at what has been achieved in love relationships, and sometimes try to maintain multiple connections at the same time.
The 3♦ as the first Karmic Card often generates a hidden fear in the soul of Q♦ of "not getting enough" from life. Usually it is this secret fear that prompts Q♦ to engage in numerous love relationships. Although outwardly they may pretend that they are tired of their love affair or that they cannot find the right person, in reality it may be that one partner is not enough for them to satisfy their need for the reliability of the relationship or its variety. Many Q♦-men possess, so to speak, a "harem consciousness". Although this feature is also found in other cards, it is still more characteristic of Q♦. It is conditioned by their inner uncertainty, which is often well hidden from the eyes of others. If a person often changes love partners, one should remember: this is explained by more important reasons than the ones he himself can tell. This is a certain evidence of a deep inner conflict.
Analyzing specific partner relationships between different cards, you will notice that Q♦ are rarely recommended as partners for marriage. They are not predisposed to marriage due to the type of relationship with partners that is characteristic of them. However, this type of relationship does not remain unchanged for life. Q♦ can break themselves, honestly look at themselves and try to identify their deepest fears. But this is a task of at least colossal proportions. Among all the cards in the deck, Q♦ have the most difficult love karma.
However, a Q♦ who has decided to find the truth within herself will dare to embark on this difficult journey. She will indeed be able to abandon the behavior typical of her card and find a happy and stable marriage or love affair. In her example, we see more clearly than in the case of many other cards that a person is not limited for life to the behavioral pattern characteristic of their Birth Card. The scheme of the properties of each Birth Card actually shows the special life task facing the person. And this is a task, not a pernicious fate. Through a conscious attitude to life and the ability to love, the negative character of any Birth Card can be transformed into the highest expression of profound beauty.