Q♥ - Queen of Hearts
card of the loving mother
Being under the dual influence of Neptune, the Q♥ is fully endowed with the idealism of this planet. All people with this Birth Card have charisma and magnetism that attract other people. Queens of Hearts are the "mothers of love" and share this love with everyone they meet in life. They either enter into marriage and dedicate themselves to the family, or devote all their energy to a professional career. They have a very high potential for success in many areas, and regardless of their gender, they are particularly successful in "male" professions. This is due to the KPIC as the Mars Card - a very powerful card that brings great success in life to many Heart Queens.
Heart Queens of both sexes take their role as mothers or fathers very seriously. If they become parents, they have a close spiritual bond with their children. They are very similar to the K♥, who usually devote themselves more to their children than to their spouses.
People born under the influence of the Queen of Hearts are usually very attractive, sociable and benevolent. They can become outstanding artists or performing musicians; in any case, they highly value art and beauty. Many Queens of Hearts are aware of this and benefit from their extrasensory abilities or musical talent. As long as they are guided by the truth in their ideals, the Queens of Hearts can live peacefully, raising children and wards and generously sharing love with people, which is their birthright. The Queen of Hearts is the card of the loving mother. Her life's calling is to share her love with others.
If the Queen of Hearts acts at a low level, she can be excessively indulgent, lazy and frivolous. This is the card of sensual pleasures and experiences. Among the Queens of Hearts there are many dependents, escapists and alcoholics. But if they turn to their high ideals and dare to overcome laziness and complacency, they can rise extremely high in their work and career.
The Queens of Hearts are usually attractive to strong and financially secure people. Among all the cards in the deck, they are the "favorites". The Q♥ is the embodiment of Aphrodite, the "woman every man dreams of". They are naturally endowed with all the feminine qualities necessary for the ideal wife or mistress. The Q♥ are charming and devoted to their family and ideals of love. They radiate joy, purity and a certain naivety, and anyone will think twice before trying to condemn them for anything. However, the ideals of the Heart Queens may be too high, and sometimes people with this Birth Card may attract partners who will "bring them back to earth". However, one can hope that the fall will not be too painful.
Heart Queens-men are also charming and graceful. They are more sensitive than most men and often become stay-at-home husbands who care for children while their wife works as the breadwinner of the family. The Q♥ of both sexes are attractive to strong and wealthy partners, who often marry them.
In some cases, the charm of the Q♥ gives way to indecision and some indifference to the feelings of others. The Q♥ can successfully win love affairs, but sometimes they attract treacherous or indecisive partners.
The Q♥ women are very attractive to strong men, especially Spade men. Diamond men can be crazy about Q♥ women, while Club men consider relationships with them too troublesome. Heart Queens of both sexes become good friends with Club women, however, Heart Queens-men find Club women somewhat unpredictable and incomprehensible.
The Q♥ is the queen of sexual pleasure, romantic relationships, and the cult of child care. But she can be overly sensual, too idealistic, and in some cases too sluggish and lazy.
Once I was teaching at a weekly advanced-level course and was leading a group of eight women. One of them turned out to be the Q♥. Of all the students in the courses, she was the only one who hardly devoted any time or effort to studying. It was almost amusing to watch her idling. Everyone in the group noticed how much effort it took for her to come to the classes and how lazy she was. Some people might have thought it was hard for her to study, but I'm almost sure she was rather enjoying the situation. Heart Queens love comfort and luxury.
Queens of Hearts of both sexes are often charming and beautiful, but they often get bogged down in the swamp of codependent relationships of the savior-victim type, which do not allow the fulfillment of their desires. It should be borne in mind that the Queen of Hearts is the only card in the deck that is under the double influence of Neptune. Although Neptune can inspire us to do a great deal of work to save the world, it can also entangle our personal lives to such an extent that happiness becomes impossible. In the case of the Q♥, this is manifested mainly in relationships with family members, lovers and spouses. With such an excess of Neptune's energy, there are huge doubts about one's own needs and needs. The entire life of the Q♥ can be so filled with helping other people that she turns into a martyr. The energy of Neptune has a good influence on the Q♥ in the area where they work and helps them achieve great results. However, this same influence always hinders success in their personal relationships.
Here is a classic Q♥ situation: a Q♥ woman is married to a successful, influential man. One love affair after another follows for her husband, but the Queen of Hearts remains in the hope that one day her husband will change, or somehow convinces herself that if she submits to everything and gives in to him, then one day he will see the light and love her again. But she will never tell him about her problems and won't even hint that they exist.
People born under the influence of the Q♥ can significantly improve their lives and achieve great happiness if they use one simple piece of advice: share their feelings and needs with their partner. This is very easy and even much easier than some may think. The truth is that the partner of the Q♥ certainly also wants to take care of her and live for her, but the Q♥ must give him that opportunity. She needs to take a risk and show her vulnerability to her partner. Only then can the Q♥ develop proper intimate relationships with her loved one and truly share the joy of life with him.